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Saturday, June 12, 2010

The Values of Life – Where Lies Your Priority??

Morning!

In contemplating and trying to articulate my priorities for the adoption
profile that birth mothers will read, I came across this very interesting article...hope you enjoy it as much as I did. :)

May your day be amazing...

kah

August 10, 2008 by VASU KANNA
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “yes.”
The professor then produced two glasses of wine from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
“Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things; your family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions; things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else; the small stuff.
If you put the sand into the jar first , ” he continued, “there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. Do one more run down the ski slope. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first; the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the wine represented.
The professor smiled. “I’m glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for you to take time off for a couple of glasses of wine with a family member or a friend.”
So, where lies your priority, with the golf balls or – with the sand?
Is this true ! Do people realize this!!
and especially its for ‘U’!
i was looking some inspirational articles to lift my spirits and i found this i donno how its going to be influencing me !!But atleast its better if someone who read this realizes the crux of life!!
and did anyone say i am an altruist???

3 comments:

  1. My problem has always been that I regard work as one of the golf balls. Imagine how much happier and fuller my life would be if I demoted my job to a pebble! Easier said than done, but I will work on it! Thanks for inviting me to blog, and posting this missive. I should read it every morning before work :)

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  2. I thought I had demoted work too--when I left Shire nearly 2 years ago. Somehow it wants to be a golfball again and I am trying my best to resist the temptation to upgrade it...

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  3. I'm so excited to read what you have to share; this one is great as I often need visuals to put things into perspective for me; I'm trying to promote my body to golf ball; starting to feel it.

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